Disrespectful Relative

What I hate most are disrespectful people. The ones who always think that they are above everyone else. 

During my teen years when I was staying with my Dad and his wife. His wife has a niece who is super annoying always bring his so call boyfriend now husband to come over to the house to play mahjong. Never even consider that I am a human there that needs sleep. Play until godly hours. Ya I know...I know... Than why your Dad don't say anything? Sigh... To this day at half century old than I released why. ***Read my previous blog to what happened last few years of my life***Still other times they drop by last minute and ate the food that was prepared for only 3 people. Seriously... Angry... Thought they were history from my life. 

Than I got married and again another foolish me to think my BIL is nice. However, things begin to change. Previous Chinese New Year, we work so hard to cook a feast for the family and he came here bringing vegetarian dishes. The nerve of him! 😤🤬😡 If you vegetarian that day, don't waste our time to cook like slave and turn around you claim to be the saint while we are the devils who put meat infront of you to tempt you. After that I swear never to cook feast anymore during Chinese New Year. Will be plain Steamboat henceforth. It doesn't end there. Last year he spring onto us and brought a guest, nephew girlfriend to join us without a decency to inform us. Nevermind, nephew parents also don't know to tell us too. So again another disrespectful one. Lucky we have enough food. This year he again tries to ask to come during reunion dinner. I said HELL NO! When FIL was alived, just to make him happy we tolerated them but now FIL is gone, we ain't gonna allow all of them take us for granted! Want us to cook, you all eat and leave just because one if you all have places to go? Not my problem... Not in my house anymore... Go find your dinner somewhere else. You dont repect us, dont expect to get any back. This year we told him directly RSVP. The nerve of him to say only additional chopsticks only what. Who prepare? So if not enough chairs can ask guest to sit on floor or no you sit on floor to eat? We prepare everything and he act like he invites anyone he wants. 😡🤬😤So disrespectful! Lucky he never say to me if not at this age, I no longer learn to hold my temper for people like him. You get what you give. Disrespectful with Disrespectful!!! Henceforth, Chinese New Year ever year has been HELL! Couldn't wait to get over with it. 

This is just my opinion, my say.